Regardless of who you’re having sex with; your husband, wife, friend, neighbor, the person you swiped right on 4 days ago, sex for everyone is different. Everyone likes different things and gets off in different ways. Communication really is key when it comes to having sex and I’ve given some thought to things we can all introduce into our sex lives that will keep things fiery and frisky. So whether you’re having great sex or you’re looking for a way to improve things, hopefully I’ve got something here for you!
- Learn to Give a Massage
I personally hate giving my husband massages because he likes pressure and frankly, Im weak. I will be pressing as hard as I can (and wearing myself out) and he doesn’t feel anything but truthfully theres something very sexy about a massage. Even if your massage isn’t sexual, allowing your partner to feel relaxed at your hands can allow for a new feeling that will in turn become a comfortability in your sex life.
- Lingerie, Lingerie, Lingerie
When I had my bridal shower last March I told everyone who asked me about a gift to bring me lingerie because realistically why not? I will be the first to admit I’m a girl who is full of confidence when I have my clothes on but put me in lingerie and tell me to go out in front of my husband and all of a sudden I become this shy person so trust me I get it! Truthfully though when I had the conversation with my husband; he said mostly it’s the attitude and presentation (regardless of in lingerie or not) but he stated a man does appreciate lingerie and the beauty and sexiness in it. So ladies, head out to Victoria’s Secret, find something you like and find that inner sex kitten attitude!
- Don’t Forget About Foreplay
I feel like this one should be self explanatory but in conversations with friend’s f mine it’s clearly not! You can’t just go right for it because half of sex is setting the right mood. Give you and your partner time to get comfortable, get acquainted (for the night) and to get loose! (for lack of a better word) You really have to appreciate those moments before sex when the kissing is passionate and things slowly progress forward! Don’t let those moments pass you by!
- Sex Toys?
So I know a lot of people aren’t into this but there is something to be said about introducing sex toys into your sexual relationship. Sex toys are a great way to spice things up in your relationship whether thats a toy made for 2 people usage (haha) or a toy made for just you that can easily be used while your parter watches! Figure out what you like and take a trip to your local adult store together.
What keeps your sex life fiery?